A friend and I were reminiscing at our 40th high school reunion about, of all things, high school. During the conversation, she made a comment about how she and our other friends were surprised that for so long my goal was to become a secretary. The reason it surprised them, she said, was that I was one of the smartest in the class and could have done anything.
That conversation brought back memories that I have not thought about for a long time. On one level, I knew I was one of the smartest in my class. Grades weren’t a secret and mine were consistently at the top. And yet I did not think I was smart enough to go to college. It probably wasn’t until my senior year that I finally realized that if I wasn’t smart enough, who was? There were plenty of students, with lower grades than mine, that were planning on going. If they could, why couldn’t I?
The result is that I went to college, obtained two bachelor of science degrees and a minor, graduated magna cum laude, and did it in 4 1/2 years while working 30-40 hours a week at 2-3 different jobs.
I was one of the best and the brightest, yet I didn’t see it.
Are you in that situation? Are you one of the best and the brightest and don’t realize it? Would you have greater success in your life if you recognized that you are capable of achieving it?
Are there girls in your life (daughters, granddaughters, nieces) that might be in that situation? Do they realize that they are one of the best and the brightest, that they can do anything they want? Would some encouragement from you help them see themselves more clearly? (And remember that boys need encouragement, too.)
Often, the thing holding us back the most is our own self-perception. We can change that!